We live in a society where mixed images of people fill our mind. We see stick figures parading around in fashionable clothes on a runway as the ideal mobile hanger for fashion. We see larger voluptuous women who are demanding to be recognized as beautiful and embraced for their size. We have people who are pear shaped, apple shaped, larger shouldered people, and people with medical problems. In the light of all of these shapes and sizes, what is the healthy weight and how do we maintain it?
Healthy Image
First and foremost, I must start with self image. It really doesn’t matter if a woman is large, small, tall, or short . . . if she has a poor self image, she will believe herself to be not beautiful. This happens to me as well. I know that I am very close to my ideal weight, but when I look in the mirror, I judge. I am MY WORST critic.
Even though I have these feelings of self doubt, I shake myself off and I have to constantly remind myself of the truth. This is the truth that I want you to take with you today. My true self identity is in no way connected to my body. Let me repeat that . . .
Your true self identity is in no way connected to your body.
Our body changes constantly. We are born as a baby. We grow into a child. We go through puberty and change a heap. We become young adults and then full adults. Our bodies are in a constant state of flux from 0-21. After our childhood growth slows, […]